How to save your Heart?

How to save your heart?

-never expect.
-never demand.
-never assume.

-your limits.
-where you stand.
-your role.

-get affected.
-get jealous.
-get paranoid.

-go with the flow

Happy World heart day

The 10 Most Important Things Are...


LOVE : The Special Feeling That Makes You Feel All Warm 'n Wonderful.

RESPECT : Treating Others As Well As You Would Like To Be Treated.

APPRECIATION : To Be Grateful For All The Good Things Life Has To Offer.

HAPPINESS : The Full Enjoyment Of Each Moment. A Smiling Face.

FORGIVENESS : The Ability To Let Things Be Without Anger.

SHARING : The Joy Of Giving Without Thought Of Receiving.

HONESTY : The Quality Of Always Telling The Truth.

INTEGRITY : The Purity Of Doing What's Right, No Matter What.

COMPASSION : The Essence Of Feeling Another's Pain, While Easing Their Hurt.

PEACE : The Reward For Living The 10 Most Important Things.

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The Top 10 Most Important Things Girls Look For In a Guy...

There are some things that are very important to a girl. These ten things are the most important that a guy should have in order to win his girl over.

1. Courage Girls hate it when a guy doesn’t have the guts to ask her out herself, 'n when he gets his friend to do it for him, it’s a major turn off.

2. Well-Groomed We don’t expect you to be a super model, but at least make sure your hair is brushed, as well as your teeth. We notice the smallest things, so make sure you cover it all.

3. Sense of Humour
When you talk to us, we expect you to know how to make us laugh, but don’t turn dorky on us. An occasional laugh every now 'n then is good for the first few dates. Don’t start cracking jokes left 'n right until maybe the fourth date.

4. Compassion, 'n lots of it!
Nice compliments 'n small kind gestures are what really gets us looking forward to a second date. The more compassion the better. You can never be too nice.

5. Honesty
Be true about who you are. Whether you know or not, we can tell when you are putting on a show. Plus the way you act on the first date, we will expect you to act that way forever.

6. Protective
Even on the first date it’s important to know that you expect us to focus only on you. But keep in mind that just because another guy says hey, doesn’t mean that you can jump all over him. There has to be boundaries, according to what date it is.

7. Good Manners
Every girl wants a guy that knows his manners. I’m not talking, yes ma’am, no ma’am. A please, thank you, and a you're welcome, is all we’re asking for.

8. Intelligence
No not Albert Einstein, just let us know that you know what you’re talking about.

9. Maturity
Girls want a guy that will pick around, but have a serious side too. We want a guy, not a 6 year old.

10. Loyalty
When we go out with a guy, we want to know that they are focused on us. We really do not want to see you turn around and talk to another girl. Whether its the first date, or the millionth, we get jealous….easily.

A Very Touching Job Interview Story...

A Very Touching Story

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.

He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.

The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none".

The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth 'n perfect.

The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study 'n read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go 'n clean your mother's hands, 'n then see me tomorrow morning.

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, 'n there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence 'n his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother 'n son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.

The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: "Can you tell me what have you done 'n learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered," I cleaned my mother's hand, 'n also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'

The Director asked,"please tell me your feelings."

The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, by working together 'n helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult 'n tough it is to get something done. Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance 'n value of family relationship.

The director said, "This is what I am looking for to be my manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of

others to get things done, 'n a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, 'n received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently 'n as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.

A child, who has been protected 'n habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" 'n would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, 'n when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees 'n would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble 'n be full of hatred 'n fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?

You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates 'n bowls together with their brothers 'n sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort 'n experience the difficulty 'n learns the ability to work with others to get things done.

Try to forward this story to as many as possible...this may change somebody's fate... !

Silence doesn't Always mean yes...

Silence doesn't Always mean yes,
it may also mean no
But its Better Left Unsaid..

Anger doesn't always mean hatred,
it could just be a means of Coping..

Laughter doesn't always mean happiness,
Sometimes its just a Mask..

Tears doesn't always mean Sorrow,
It may also be an Outlet of Joy...

Staying Away doesn't always Mean its the End,
It may also mean the Best Beginning.. !

Wish You Happy World Music Day...

Music is my Best Friend...
Music is what makes you move
Music is what makes you groove
Music can be good or bad depending on how its used
Music can make you choose different clothes to wear
Music can make you change your hair
Music can make you choose new friends
Music can make you want to dance
Music can make you fight
Music can make everything alright
Music can take care of you when your alone
Music can make everything feel like home
Music can harm and take away
Music can make you want to stay
Music is the only friend I have
Music is my mom and dad
Music is what keeps me alive
When I feel like I can't survive.. !

Wish You Happy World Music Day...
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The Story Of Father and Son...

The Father and son

An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 years old highly educated son.
Suddenly a crow perched on their window.

The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"
The Son replied "It is a crow".

After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"
The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".

After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, What is this?"
At this time some expression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff.
"It's a crow, a crow"

A little after,the Father again asked his Son the 4th time, "What is this?"
This time the Son shouted at his Father,"Why do you keep asking me the same question again 'n again, although I have told you so many times 'IT
IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"

A little later the Father went to his room 'n came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born.
On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page.

When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary :-

"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa,When a crow was sitting on the window My Son asked me 23 times what it was, 'n
I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again 'n again for 23 times.
I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".

While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times 'n when
today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated 'n annoyed.

Lesson to learn from This Story:

If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble 'n kind to them. Be considerate to your parents.

From today say this aloud,

"I want to see my parents Happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.

They crossed all mountains 'n valleys without seeing the storm 'n heat to make me a person presentable in the society today".

Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good 'n kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave.

Some of the Inspiring Quotes which tell not to give up in life so you can learn something from these Quotes

1) Never expect things to happen..
struggle 'n make them happen.
never expect yourself to be given a good value create a value of your own

2) If a drop of water falls in lake there is no identity.
But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it shine like a choose the best place where you would shine..

3) Falling down is not defeat...defeat is when your refuse to get up...

4) Ship is always safe at shore... but is is not built for it

5) When your successful your well wishers know who you are when you are unsuccessful you know who your well wishers are

6) It is great confidence in a friend to tell him your faults; greater to tell him/her

7) "To the world you might be one person,
but to one person you just might be the world

8) "Even the word 'IMPOSSIBLE' says 'I M POSSIBLE' "

9) Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort in your life makes all the difference.

May God Bless You All.. !

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Life Throws A Brick At You...

How many times did life throws a brick at you to get your attention. I guess that we are all too easily distracted. TV, commercials, radio 'n advertisement 'n toys – too much of these things have drowned out life’s voice.

A young 'n successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars 'n slowed down when he thought he saw something. As his car passed, no children appeared, instead, a brick smashed into the Jaguar's side door. He slammed on the brakes 'n spun the Jaguar back to the spot from where the brick had been thrown.

He jumped out of the car, grabbed some kid 'n pushed him up against a parked car, shouting, "What was that all about 'n who are you? Just what the heck are you doing?" Building up a head of steam, he went on. "That's a new car 'n that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?"

"Please, mister, please, I'm sorry. I didn't know what else to do!" pleaded the youngster. "I threw the brick because no one else would stop."

Tears were dripping down the boy's chin as he pointed around the parked car. "It's my brother," he said. "He rolled off the curb 'n fell out of his wheelchair 'n I can't lift him up." Sobbing, the boy asked the executive, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt 'n he's too heavy for me."

Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He lifted the young man back into the wheelchair 'n took out his handkerchief 'n wiped the scrapes 'n cuts, checking to see that everything was going to be okay.

"Thank you, sir. 'n God bless you," the grateful child said to him. The man then watched the little boy push his brother to the sidewalk toward their home. It was a long walk back to his Jaguar... a long, slow walk. He never did repair the side door. He kept the dent to remind him not to go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention.

Moral :

Life whispers in your soul 'n speaks to your heart. Sometimes, when you don't have the time to listen... Life throws a brick at your head. It's your choice: Listen to the whispers of your soul or wait for the brick. Do you sometimes ignore loved ones because your life is too fast 'n busy leaving them to wonder whether you really love them?

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She Has Secrets You'll Never Know Or Understand...

She Has Secrets You'll Never Know Or Understand...
She Has Secrets You'll Never Know Or Understand,
She Appears So Strong On The Outside,
But On The Inside Her World Is Spinning Upside Down.
Shes Smiling 'n Standing Tall 2 The Outta World,
Shes Crying 'n Breaking Down In Her Inner World.

She Appears So Happy to Her Mates,
But Alone, She Shares Her Tears With Her Pillow.
She Knows Not to Get Her Hopes Up,
As They Always Come Crashing Down.
Shes Heard It All Before 'n Felt It All.
Shes Experienced More Then Her Fair Share.
One Touch, 'n She'll Flinch
One Harsh, Word 'n She'll Cry
One Bad Moment, 'n She'll Break Down

She Trusts No one,
Because The People She Has, Hurt Her 'n Leave Her to Pick Up The Pieces

She Believes No one,
Because The People She Has, Lie 'n Betray Her.
So For Now She'll Keep to Herself
'n Pretend Everything Is Fine, When Everything Is Wrong

I Know This Girl,
Because This Girl Is Me.. !

I M Sorry...

I M Sorry Of Being So Emotional
I M Sorry Of Being So Possessive
I M Sorry That I Cry For You
I M Sorry Because I Cant Live Without You

I M Sorry For The Tears You Shed
I M Sorry For The Damage I Made
I M Sorry Ive Made You Sick
Sorry I Hurt You So Deep

I M Sorry For Giving You Sleepless Nights
I M Sorry For Each 'n Every Fight
I M Sorry For Your Pain & Agony
I M Sorry For The Missing Harmony

I M Sorry For My Selfish Love
I M Sorry For Not Caring Enough
I M Sorry For My Restlessness
I M Sorry For The Losing Grace

I M Sorry My Friend I Made You Mad
I M Sorry Darling You Are So Sad
Sorry For Not Giving You Any Happiness
Sorry Because Its My Disgrace

I M Sorry For Thinking Of You So Very Much
I M Sorry I Always Miss Your Touch
I M Sorry Of Being So Mad About You
I M Sorry For My Every Blue
I M Sorry Of Being So Immature
I M Sorry Now That Cant Be Cured
I M Sorry Of Being Myself
I M Sorry That Ive Failed

I M Sorry 'n Sorry Again
I M Sorry Of Being Insane
But Believe Me That I Love You
Should I Say Sorry For That Too ?

A Letter from Mom and Dad...

My child,

When I get old, I hope you understand 'n have patience with me
In case I break the plate, or spill soup on the table because I’m losing my eyesight, I hope you don’t yell at me.
Older people are sensitive, always having self pity when you yell.
When my hearing gets worse 'n I can’t hear what you’re saying, I hope you don’t call me ‘Deaf!’
Please repeat what you said or write it down.

I’m sorry, my child.
I’m getting older.
When my knees get weaker, I hope you have the patience to help me get up.
Like how I used to help you while you were little, learning how to walk.
Please bear with me, when I keep repeating myself like a broken record, I hope you just keep listening to me.
Please don’t make fun of me, or get sick of listening to me.

Do you remember when you were little 'n you wanted a ballon? You repeated yourself over 'n over until you get what you wanted.
Please also pardon my smell. I smell like an old person.Please don’t force me to shower.
My body is weak.
Old people get sick easily when they’re cold. I hope I don’t gross you out.

Do you remember when you were little? I used to chase you around because you didn’t want to shower.
I hope you can be patient with me when I’m always cranky. It’s all part of getting old.
You’ll understand when you’re older.
'n if you have spare time, I hope we can talk even for a few minutes.
I’m always all by myself all the time, 'n have no one to talk to.
I know you’re busy with work.
Even if you’re not interested in my stories, please have time for me.

Do you remember when you were little? I used to listen to your stories about your teddy bear.
When the time comes, 'n I get ill 'n bedridden, I hope you have the patience to take care of me.
I’m sorry if I accidentally wet the bed or make a mess.
I hope you have the patience to take care of me during the last few moments of my life.
I’m not going to last much longer, anyway.
When the time of my death comes, I hope you hold my hand 'n give me strength to face death.

'n don’t worry..
When I finally meet our creator, I will whisper in his ear to bless you. Because you loved your Mom 'n Dad.
Thank you so much for your care.
We love you. !

‎101 Reasons why I LOVE YOU !

1. I love the way we finish each other's sentences.
2. I love the way I know you'll never give up on me.
3. I love the fact that I wouldn't ever give up on you.
4. I love the way you look at me.
5. I love how beautiful your eyes are.
6. I love the way I can't imagine a day without you in my life.
7. I love the way if we were ever separated I wouldn't know how to go on.
8. I love the way we cuddle 'n watch sunsets together.
9. I love the way we sometimes stay up all night, then watch the sunrise together.
10. I love how I know you'll always be there when I need you to be.
11. I love the fact that I will always be there for you too.
12. I love how when I dream of my life partner, the only person I can see is you.
13. I love how complete I feel when I am with you.
14. I love how our bodies just fit together.
15. I love the way you make me laugh.
16. I love the way you laugh.
17. I love the way you won't compromise yourself when we are together.
18. I love the way you won't let me compromise myself.
19. I love your thoughtfulness.
20. I love your tenderness.
21. I love your ability to speak without saying a single word.
22. I love the way we glance at each other across the room 'n know what each other is thinking.
23. I love the way, how even though we may be miles apart I still feel like you're right here with me.
24. I love the way you surprise me with the perfect gifts that show you pay attention to me.
25. I love the way you'll watch a sporting game with me even though you may not be interested in it.
26. I love the way you treat my friends.
27. I love your love for the things that interest me.
28. I love the way you let me live my life freely without jealousy.
29. I love how you demand respect but are not controlling.
30. I love how I would do anything in this world to make you happy.
31. I love how you would do anything in this world to make me happy.
32. I love the way your voice sounds over the phone.
33. I love the way your voice sounds when you whisper sweet nothings in my ear.
34. I love the completeness 'n oneness I feel when we make love.
35. I love your sensuality.
36. I love how our romance feels like the perfect romance movie.
37. I love how you are my soul mate.
38. I love the way you handle troubled times.
39. I love the way you respect me.
40. I love the way you protect 'n defend me.
41. I love how you feel when we cuddle.
42. I love the softness of your lips against mine.
43. I love the softness of you lips against my body.
44. I love the feeling of your hair brushing against me when we make love.
45. I love laying in bed at night talking about nothing.
46. I love waking up to find we've been cuddling together all night.
47. I love the surprises you leave for me.
48. I love your intelligence.
49. I love your ingenuity.
50. I love your ability to make friends where ever we go.
51. I love your love for life.
52. I love your passion for your hobbies 'n interests.
53. I love how every time I look at you, you take my breath away.
54. I love how I thank God everyday for bringing someone as wonderful as you into my life.
55. I love the fact you gave me the gift of our children.
56. I love the special moments that we shared that will remain my fondest memories of you 'n I.
57. I love spending the holidays with the one person I love the most.
58. I love how my heart skips a beat whenever you walk into the room.
59. I love how you love me.
60. I love how I love you.
61. I love the ways you choose to show your affection for me.
62. I love the way you inspire me to be more than I am.
63. I love the way you spark my creativity 'n imagination.
64. I love the way you make me feel like anything is possible as long as I'm with you.
65. I love your sense of humor.
66. I love the way you make me feel like royalty.
67. I love the way you dress.
68. I love your understated elegance.
69. I love you just the way you are.
70. I love your spontaneity.
71. I love our life together.
72. I love how if I died right now I would be the happiest person alive knowing I found my one true love.
73. I love the fact that we will grow old together.
74. I love your way with words.
75. I love the way you look when your sleeping.
76. I love the way you think you look awful when you first wake up when it is actually then I find you the most beautiful.
77. I love your willingness to share everything 'n most especially your heart with me.
78. I love your strength of character.
79. I love taking showers together.
80. I love the way you leave me love notes to find whenever you're gone.
81. I love the way you treat me.
82. I love the way you take care of us.
83. I love your cooking.
84. I love the way you take the time to thank me for doing every day things.
85. I love the way you show your affection when we are around friends andor family.
86. I love the way you are not scared to show your affection when we are in public.
87. I love your confidence.
88. I love your ability to make me feel better when times are tough.
89. I love the way we make up after a fight.
90. I love how you treat our children.
91. I love the way you support me when I'm off track.
92. I love the way you take the time to show me how much you love me.
93. I love your beautiful hair.
94. I love your body.
95. I love your openness to try new things.
96. I love your ability to talk things through.
97. I love your courage to be you.
98. I love your greatness.
99. I love the fact that you want to be with me 'n only me.
100. I love how I am 'n feel when I am with you!
101. I love you for you!

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Learn to Let Go...

Let me tell you a small story. A man at a restaurant said a hilarious joke 'n everyone present there laughed aloud. After 5 minutes this man cracked the same joke 'n then a few people laughed, 'n he cracked it 4 more times until the point no one laughed at the joke.

This man was very wise, smiled
'n told everyone “If you cannot laugh at the same joke again 'n again,
why do you cry about the same thing again 'n again?".
Every person present there had a smile of enlightenment on their faces.

Everyone knows the fact I have mentioned here, only we forget this in our everyday lives. We must learn to let our past be past, only learn from those mistakes 'n move ahead. Don’t keep grudges, anger, mistakes in your head, learn to let go. It is truly not worth wasting space in your mind with these meaningless things.
Letting go off the past 'n moving on will only ensure a happier you. !

Tear Of Woman...

Why Women Cry... Watch her eyes

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him 'n said, "'n you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up 'n became a man, still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth 'n the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, 'n take care of her family through sickness 'n fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any 'n all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults 'n fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths 'n her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
'n finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

When I Say I Love You...


When I Say I Love You..
Believe Me It's True...

When I Say Forever..
Know I'll Never Leave You...

When I Say Goodbye..
Promise Me You Won't Cry ..

Cause The Day I'll Be Saying That..
Would Be The Day I Die.. !

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