My Wishes for New Year...


Sms2everyone and Feelings2share wishes you…

to face challenges with confidence, along with the wisdom to choose your battles carefully.

on your journey and may you always stop to help the needy along the way.

to listen to your heart and take risks carefully.

keep in mind that you are loved for what you are and not for what you have.

And All good fortunes…

of life, health, happiness this coming year, after and after.
Happy New Year 2013!!


I still remember mom when once you and dad asked me what I need to do in my life I replied you I will reduce the pain of other’s people and I became a physiotherapist so that I can try my level best to reduce the pain of others.
But today I am not able to resist my own pain.
Doctors are slashing my body parts for the fifth time like they were never the parts of my body…it is paining a lot mom I am not able to breathe properly and they attached me with oxygen cap. please tell the doctors not to give me the anesthesia mom.
I am scared I don’t want to close my eyes. If I close my eyes it takes me to that scary phase of my life where I was being cut into pieces I was just bunch of flesh which was being continuously chopped by those animals. Those faces were very scary mom they were like those hungry animals who were biting at every parts of my body.
I don’t have courage to look myself in the mirror.
Mom please break all the mirrors
nearby me. Pls take me to bath. I
want to bath. I want to sit under the shower for years mom so that I can wash those inhuman touch which has made me hate my own body.
I tried to go towards bathroom but my stomach pain didn’t allow me to move myself.
I can’t raise my head to see you
standing outside through door glass.
When someone enter in my room I feel very scared mom. my heartbeats gets faster my eyes searches for you. please be around me. I don’t want to be alone.
Mom these medical instrument beeps are haunting in my brain. they sound like those unhelping traffic sounds which muted my cry and pleads which I was doing that time mom. The silence of this room reminds me of that silence when I was thrown on deserted road. I don’t know what happened but I was feeling very much cold the same way like a person shivering with very high temperature. Mom do you remember once when dad slapped me in childhood how much you fought with him until dad didn’t bring my favorite chocolate…Where is dad, mom?
I can’t see he ok mom ???
Please don’t let him cry mom. Do you remember once how dad got angry on you when you used to shout on me for anything?
They have beaten me and my dearest friend with some metal. It was paining a lot mom. I saw how he was bleeding to save me but they were coward rascals. They kept on beating him together till he didn’t collapse and then they scratched every parts of my body repeatedly mom.
You always taught me to fight with the difficult situations but I am
very weak in this situation. please hold my hand.
I want to sleep please put my head in your lap.
Please wash my body.
Give me some pain killer my stomach is paining.
Please tell doctor not to cut more parts of my body. its paining a lot.
I am sorry mom I can’t fight
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A to Z of Life...


A – Accept

Accept others for who they are 'n for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty in understanding their beliefs, motives or actions.

B – Break Away

Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish in your life.

C – Create

Create a family of friends with whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows 'n happiness.

D – Decide

Decide that you’ll be successful 'n happy come what may 'n good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

E – Explore

Explore 'n experiment. The world has much to offer 'n you have much to give. 'n every time you try something new, you’ll learn more about yourself.

F – Forgive

Forgive 'n forget. Grudges only weigh you down 'n inspire unhappiness 'n grief. Soar above it 'n remember that everyone makes mistakes.

G – Grow

Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.

H – Hope

Hope for the best 'n never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.

I – Ignore

Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals 'n remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds for you.

J – Journey

Journey to new worlds, new possibilities by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day 'n you’ll grow.

K – Know

Know that no matter how bad things seem, they’ll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.

L – Love

Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there’s room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there’s room for endless happiness.

M – Manage

Manage your time 'n your expenses wisely 'n you’ll suffer less stress 'n worry. Then you’ll be able to focus on the important things in life.

N – Notice

Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak or thode who suffer. Offer your assistance when possible 'n always share your kindness 'n understanding.

O – Open

Open your eyes 'n take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times there’s still much to be thankful for.

P – Play

Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.

Q – Question

Ask many questions because you’re here to learn.

R – Relax

Refuse to let worry 'n stress rule your life 'n remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.

S – Share

Share your talent, skills, knowledge 'n time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.

T – Try

Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You’ll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

U – Use

Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that’s wasted has no value. Talent that’s used will bring unexpected rewards.

V – Value

Value the friends 'n family members who have supported 'n encouraged you 'n be there for them as well.

W – Work

Work hard every day to be the best person you can be but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

X – X-Ray

Look deep inside the hearts of those around you 'n you’ll see the goodness 'n beauty within.

Y – Yield

Yield to commitment. If you stay on track 'n remain dedicated, you’ll find success at the end of the road.

Z – Zoom

Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams 'n a brighter tomorrow.

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A Letter from Heaven...

When tomorrow starts without me,
and I'm not here to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes,
filled with tears for me.

I wish so much you wouldn't cry,
the way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
we didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,
as much as I love you,
And each time you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too.

When tomorrow starts without me,
don't think we're far apart,
for every time you think of me,
I'm right there in your heart.

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A Beautiful Story...

A very poor man lived with his wife.

One day, his wife,
who had very long hair asked him to buy her a comb
for her hair to grow well 'n to be well-groomed.

The man felt very sorry 'n said no.
He explained that
he did not even have enough money
to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken.

She did not insist on her request.

The man went to work 'n passed by a watch shop,
sold his damaged watch at a low price
'n went to buy a comb for his wife.

He came home in the evening
with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.

He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut.

She had sold her hair 'n was holding a new watch band.

Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes,
not for the futility of their actions,
but for the reciprocity of their love.

To love is nothing,
To be loved is something but to love
To be loved by the one you love,
That is EVERYTHING.....

Never Ever Take Love For Granted.. !!

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Thank you so much....

Thanks for this and thanks for that
Thanks for the known and thanks for the unknown
Thanks for the things loved
Thanks for the unloved
Thanks thanks thanks

Thanks for people of all shapes and sizes
Thanks for the hearts small and large
Thanks for the talents and gifts of every soul
Thanks Thanks Thanks

Even when life deals us lemons, we give thanks and make lemonade.
Even when the dark clouds loom ever so close to our person,
we give thanks.
Nothing or no one can stop us from giving thanks.
So in this, we give thanks for the wisdom
and grace in being able to give thanks.

Thank you,
Thanks for looking after me
Thanks for having someone to look upto and admire
Thanks for giving me time
Thanks for giving me space
Thanks for giving me endless advice
Thanks for making me laugh
Thanks for making me cry
Thanks for making me sing
Thanks for making me sigh
Thanks for just being you
Thanks for just listening
thanks for making me stop!


Thanks for being, you,
Thanks for giving me the joys and smiles from day one,
Thanks for helping me enjoy the atmosphere here.

Thanks for correcting me when I was wrong,
Thanks for helping me follow the guidelines to survive,
Thanks for helping me try and cope with people around,
Thanks for giving me the courage to stand up on my own.

Thanks for all the advices,
Thanks for lending me your ears when I was upset,
Thanks for teaching me ways to hold on to the end,
Thanks for the love and care you showed.

Thanks for the wishes you have for me,
Thanks for the prayers you pray for me daily,
Thanks for the candles that you lit for me,

Thanks for the appreciation,
Thanks for not keeping a fence between,
Thanks for the confidence you have in me,

I will miss you and all the funny things you ever did,
The little naughty things you ever said,

I wish you the very best for you future endevour,
Thanks once again for everything.

With lots of love and prayers

Thanks For Being You

Thanks for giving me joys and smiles
Thanks for sharing my trouble's pile

Thanks for wipeing the tears of my eye
Thanks for showing me the glad view of sky

Thanks for lending me your shoulders to lean
Thanks for giving my words a proper mean

Thanks for telling me the value of life
Thanks for showing me the rules to survive

Thanks for lending me the sympathetic ears
Thanks for showing how much you care

From all this what I mean in the end
Is thanks for being my special friend.
ever told the guidence counceler im comiting suisiced
THANKS to whom thinks that telling people shit like is gonna stop me
THANKS to the one who broke my heart
THANKS to my sister that ruined my life
THANKS to you I hate my life
THANKS to my friend that gave me the idea to start cutting myself
THANKS to this stupid world I HATE BEING ME! ! !
THANKS just thanks I dont have nothing else to say to anyone.

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We will meet again...

Do not say goodbye
Instead See you later

Do not say goodbye,
We will meet again

Even until the final breath,
Do not say goodbye

Our spirits are connected
Through time unseen
Spirits that meet and rejoice: a memory

Even after all this time
When Earth she separates
The bodies from the spirits

Do not say goodbye
Instead, See you later !!

Tantra Totem...

You may not believe in this but the advice is great! Read all the way down, you might learn something!!!

1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

2. Marry a man or woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their
   conversational skills will be as important as any other.

3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

4. When you say, "I love you", mean it.

5. When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye.

6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

7. Believe in love at first sight.

8. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams
   don't have much.

9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt
   but it's the only way to live life completely.

10. In disagreements, fight fairly. Please No name calling.

11. Don't judge people by their relatives.

12. Talk slowly but think quickly.

13. When someone asks you a question you don't want
    to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

14. Remember that great love and great
    achievements involve great risk.

15. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.

16. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

17. Remember the three R's:
     a)    Respect for self;
     b)    Respect for others;
     c)    Responsibility for all your actions.

18. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

19. When you realize you've made a mistake,
    take immediate steps to correct it.

20. Smile when picking up the phone.
    The caller will hear it in your voice.

21. Spend some time alone.

22. All these principles will be ours ONLY when we put them to practice.

Kindness Boomerang - "One Day"...


Watch as the camera tracks an act of kindness as its passed from one individual to the next and manages to boomerang back to the person who set it into motion. 

"Sometimes Kindness And Helping Other Costs Nothing
It Gives Unexpressed Happiness
which Could Help Us to Get Cute Smile".. !!

"Kindness Costs Nothing"...
Please Share This Video As Much As Possible....
If It made you Smile Today.....

The Value of Time...

Imagine there is a bank account
that credits your account each morning with $86,400.
It carries over no balance from day to day.
Every evening the bank deletes
whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day.
What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course?
Each of us has such a bank. It's name is TIME.
Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.
Every night it writes off as lost,
whatever of this you have failed to invest to a good purpose.
It carries over no balance. It allows no over draft.
Each day it opens a new account for you.
Each night it burns the remains of the day.
If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours.
There is no drawing against "tomorrow."
You must live in the present on today's deposits.
Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health,
happiness and success!
The clock is running!! Make the most of today.

To realise the value of ONE YEAR,
ask a student who failed a grade.

To realise the value of ONE MONTH,
ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

To realise the value of ONE WEEK,
ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realise the value of ONE HOUR,
ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.

To realise the value of ONE MINUTE,
ask a person who just missed a train.

To realise the value of ONE SECOND,
ask someone who just avoided an accident.

To realise the value of ONE MILLISECOND,
ask the person who won a silver medal at the Olympics.

Treasure every moment that you have! And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time with. And remember time waits for no one.

Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why its called the present.

Just want to Thank Every One...


Thanks to those who Hated me,
They made me a Stronger person.

Thanks to those who loved me,
They made my Heart bigger.

Thanks to those who were worried about me,
They let me know that they actually cared.

Thanks to those who left me,
They made me realize that nothing lasts forever.

Thanks to those who entered my life,
They made me who i am today.

Just want to Thank Every One .

Good Morning..!

I see guys spending weeks...

I see guys spending weeks,
months trying to make a girl happy.
I see girls waiting endlessly
for their guys to call.
Is that all your life is about?
For your lover to validate you?
Or to make a relationship work?
Instead, why not focus on yourself -
working on your goals, learning something,
being a more positive person
and helping others.
That will boost your self-esteem far
more than any lover ever could.
Next time that guy or girl treats you badly, say thank you.
Say thank you for reminding me that
I need to make myself the focus of my life,
not you.

10 Lessons from Einstein...

1. Follow Your Curiosity “I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious.”

2. Perseverance is Priceless “It’s not that I’m so smart; it’s just that I stay with problems longer.”

3. Focus on the Present “Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves.”

4. The Imagination is Powerful “Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions. Imagination is more important than knowledge.”

5. Make Mistakes “A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new.”

6. Live in the Moment “I never think of the future – it comes soon enough.”

7. Create Value “Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.”

8. Don’t be repetitive “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

9. Knowledge Comes From Experience “Information is not knowledge. The only source of knowledge is experience.”

10. Learn the Rules and Then Play Better “You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.”

Feelings of a Girl...

When I was a Kid, I fell from above.
But I escaped myself from falling in Love.
When people around me were lost in Love,
I was living happily with my friends in my own world...

When I didn’t know What Love Is, I was the one whom guys fell with. But when I saw this cruel world, I made the wall around my heart. And decided, not to fall in Love. I used to avoid good guys around me, Just ‘cause of the fear of falling for them....

I started living in my dream world, And kept waiting for my prince to come But when I found you, You resembled me the prince of my dream. I tried to avoid you as I avoided others, But I failed in my every attempt. I became happy and thought that my dream came true. This is how I fell for you. I Loved You more than anyone else, But unfortunately you loved someone else....

In my mind I know you’ll never be back,But still waiting for you keeping hope in my heart you’ll ever be back.
No One Will Believe Me That It’s True.
‘Cause It Happened With ME Not With YOU...

9 Things to Think About Before You Give Up...

If you feel like you’re at the end the road with nowhere to go,
realize you are lying to yourself.  You have imprisoned yourself in your own mind by telling self-defeating stories – stories about what your life should be like, what you should have already accomplished, and so forth.  By doing this you’ve created a tiny space in your mind and you’ve begun to believe you are actually living in it.

But you are NOT.  You are alive in a vast world with infinite destinations.  Take a moment to remind yourself of this.  Go outside.  Look at the sky and the clouds.  THIS is the space in which you really live.  Breathe it in.  Then look at your current situation again.

Here are some things you need to consider before you give up:

1) You never fail until you’re satisfied with failure. Failure is not falling down; failure is staying down when you have the choice to get back up.  Sometimes you have to fail a thousand times to succeed.  Which means you haven’t really failed yet; you’ve just found a bunch of ways that don’t work.  So don’t get so hung up on a few failed attempts that you miss every new opportunity coming your way.  All of your ideas that don’t work are simply stepping stones on your way to the one idea that does.  As Winston Churchill once said, “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”  Read Awaken the Giant Within.

2) What you have learned is what’s important. – Life always offers you a second chance – it’s called tomorrow.  But this second chance doesn’t mean anything if you haven’t learned from the events of today.  You have to acknowledge your troubles but gather strength from them, and laugh at your mistakes but learn from them.  Getting a second chance in life is about giving yourself the opportunity to grow beyond your past failures.  It’s about learning as you go and positively adjusting your attitude and efforts toward future possibilities.

3) Tough times are just part of life’s natural balance. – Life lives, life dies.  Life laughs, life cries.  Life gives up and life tries.  And life looks different through everyone’s eyes.  In fact, who you were, who you are, and who you will become are three completely different people.  And as you gradually grow beyond the person you were yesterday, keep life’s challenges in perspective.  Hear life’s harmony, and notice the delicate balance.  Realize that life is like playing a grand piano.  The white keys create your happiness and the black keys denote your troubles.  But as you go through life’s journey, remember that the black keys also create music.

4) Pain helps you grow. – Sometimes things must change so you can change.  Sometimes you must break a little so you can get a peek inside to see what an awesome powerhouse you are.  Sometimes mistakes must be made so wisdom can be earned.  Sometimes you must overcome heartache so you can begin to follow your heart again.

5) Success is a way of living. – Don’t let your struggles become your identity.  Not everything in your life will go as you expect it to.  This is why you need to drop expectations, live in the present, and go with the flow, rather than against it.  Remind yourself that it’s perfectly okay not to be perfect.  Ultimately, success is not something you achieve, it is what you learn and how you grow as you deal with the realities of life – it is a way of living and being.  Read As a Man Thinketh.

6) You can choose differently. – The difference between a mountain and a molehill is your perspective.  And in many cases, the only thing in life you have control over is your perspective.  No matter what happens, YOU control what the meaning is, and what to do with the meaning you give to the circumstance.  Choose to react in a way that motivates happiness, love, or forgiveness, even when circumstances make that choice difficult.

7) It’s not supposed to be easy. – Just because you’re not where you want to be today doesn’t mean you won’t be there someday.  Again, success is tied to long-term determination.  Successful people keep moving and trying.  They make mistakes, but they do not quit.  If things in your life aren’t happening as planned right now, that’s okay.  It just means it’s not the right time.  Life’s brick walls are not there to keep you out, they’re there to give you a chance to show how badly you want something.  They’re there to stop the people who don’t want it as bad as you do.

8) Simplify, simplify, simplify. – Like all magnificent things, life is quite simple.  Its simplicity is found not in seeing how little you can get by with – that’s poverty – but how efficiently you can conquer your biggest difficulties.  Remember, the greatest wisdom of life consists in the elimination of non-essentials.  Your most significant ideas and accomplishments will be genius in their simplicity.  One day you will find the right words, the right decisions, and the right solutions that will lead you to victory, and they will be far simpler than they seem right now.  Read The Power of Less.

9) Life is still good. – You may have seen better days, but you have also seen worse.  You might not have all your wants, but you do have all your needs.  You woke up with a few aches and pains, but you woke up.  Your life may not be perfect, but it is good.  And more good things are coming down the road as long as you keep moving forward.

You are beautiful, each and every single one of you...

You are beautiful, each and every single one of you.
Don’t you dare ever forget that.
You are worth so much,
Don’t let a temporary feeling make you do something that you won’t have time to regret.
You’re here for a reason.
Treat your body with respect.
Love yourself for who you really are. Keep on smiling,
Show the world how strong you are...
Stay beautiful Always.. !!

Good Morning !! :)

There will be battles and tests for relationships...

There will be battles and tests for relationships we develop with others,
There will be battles and tests while we try to maintain a lifestyle that we worked so hard to get to live,
and There will be trials and adversity that we must face when we are truly living our lives,
instead of just waiting for life to happen.
Not everything we would like to stay forever will stay forever,
but as long as you still have breath in your lungs,
you have the choice to fight for whatever it is that is important enough for you to fight for.. !!

50 Questions That Will Free Your Mind...

These questions have no right or wrong answers.
Because sometimes asking the right questions is the answer.
  1. How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?
  2. Which is worse, failing or never trying?
  3. If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do?
  4. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
  5. What is the one thing you’d most like to change about the world?
  6. If happiness was the national currency, what kind of work would make you rich?
  7. Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing?
  8. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently?
  9. To what degree have you actually controlled the course your life has taken?
  10. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
  11. You’re having lunch with three people you respect and admire.  They all start criticizing a close friend of yours, not knowing she is your friend.  The criticism is distasteful and unjustified.  What do you do?
  12. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be?
  13. Would you break the law to save a loved one?
  14. Have you ever seen insanity where you later saw creativity?
  15. What’s something you know you do differently than most people?
  16. How come the things that make you happy don’t make everyone happy?
  17. What one thing have you not done that you really want to do?  What’s holding you back?
  18. Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?
  19. If you had to move to a state or country besides the one you currently live in, where would you move and why?
  20. Do you push the elevator button more than once?  Do you really believe it makes the elevator faster?
  21. Would you rather be a worried genius or a joyful simpleton?
  22. Why are you, you?
  23. Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
  24. Which is worse, when a good friend moves away, or losing touch with a good friend who lives right near you?
  25. What are you most grateful for?
  26. Would you rather lose all of your old memories, or never be able to make new ones?
  27. Is is possible to know the truth without challenging it first?
  28. Has your greatest fear ever come true?
  29. Do you remember that time 5 years ago when you were extremely upset?  Does it really matter now?
  30. What is your happiest childhood memory?  What makes it so special?
  31. At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
  32. If not now, then when?
  33. If you haven’t achieved it yet, what do you have to lose?
  34. Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?
  35. Why do religions that support love cause so many wars?
  36. Is it possible to know, without a doubt, what is good and what is evil?
  37. If you just won a million dollars, would you quit your job?
  38. Would you rather have less work to do, or more work you actually enjoy doing?
  39. Do you feel like you’ve lived this day a hundred times before?
  40. When was the last time you marched into the dark with only the soft glow of an idea you strongly believed in?
  41. If you knew that everyone you know was going to die tomorrow, who would you visit today?
  42. Would you be willing to reduce your life expectancy by 10 years to become extremely attractive or famous?
  43. What is the difference between being alive and truly living?
  44. When is it time to stop calculating risk and rewards, and just go ahead and do what you know is right?
  45. If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake?
  46. What would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you?
  47. When was the last time you noticed the sound of your own breathing?
  48. What do you love?  Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?
  49. In 5 years from now, will you remember what you did yesterday?  What about the day before that?  Or the day before that?
  50. Decisions are being made right now.  The question is:  Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?

55 Things That Guys Wish Girls Should Know...

1.     Sometimes we just don't want to talk. Don't take it personally.

2.     We notice other women because we are men and we are alive. This does not mean we're planning to dump you and jump them.

3.     Our favorite T-shirts are not "disgraceful." They show our loyalty to our college, our favorite sports team, our favorite beer, our favorite vacation or number 23.

4.     Helpless is not cute.

5.     Get to the point.

6.     Understand that men are single-minded and can only do one thing at a time. So don't talk to us while we're doing something. We will either ignore you, because we don't hear you "honestly), or we'll screw up what we're doing because you've distracted us.

Exception to Rule 6. Interrupt us if something is on fire, if someone needs immediate medical attention, if Pamela Lee is on TV or if there is an emergency that needs a hero.

7.     You can't complain that there are no good guys around while some of us are still single.

8.     If you ask us, "Do you think she's prettier then me?" we just might say, "Yes." Then what are you going to do?

9.     Don't expect even a great relationship with us to solve all your problems. Just because we love you, doesn't mean your cellulite, your credit card debt or your bad mood will disappear.

10.     We would not wear high heels to impress you.

11.     Breathe occasionally so we can get a word in.

12.     For us, driving is not just a means of going from point A to point B. It's an opportunity to control a couple of tons of steel. We drive, therefore, we are.

13.     If you want us to notice something, help us out by saying something like, "I went to the beauty shop today."

14.     If you have to have a cat, at least don't call him "Mister" anything.

15.     Hide the self help books when we come over. They make us nervous.

16.     We need to vegetate.

17.     We don't go shopping. When we need something, we buy it.

18.     We believe our bodily functions are perfectly normal and, at times, quite amusing.

19.    We don't believe you when you say money isn't important to you.

20.    When we see pictures of Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones we feel proud and happy to be men. We don't care if it's not fair.

21.     It's not that we don't want to make you happy, it's just that sometimes, we don't know how.

22.     Learn to work the toilet seat. If it's up, put it down.

23.     If it itches, it will be scratched.

24.     If you ask a question you don't really want an answer to, expect an answer you didn't want to hear.

25.     Sometimes, we're not thinking about you. Live with it.

26.     Don't ask us what were thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss topis such as navel lint, the shotgun formation and monster trucks.

27.     Sundays equals sports. Period.

28.     Beer is as exciting for us as handbags are for you.

29.     When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really.

30.     You have enough clothes.

31.     You have too many shoes.

32.     Crying is blackmail.

33.     Your ex-boyfriend is an idiot.

34.     Ask for what you want. Let's be clear on this one: Subtle hints don't work. Strong hints don't work. Really obvious hints don't work. Just say it!

35.     No, we don't know what day it is. We never will. Mark anniversaries on a calendar you know we check.

36.     We're not mind readers and we never will be. OUr lack of mind-reading ability is not proof of how little we care about you.

37.     Most guys own three pairs of shoes. What makes you think we'd be any good at choosing which pair - out of 30 - would look good with your dress?

38.     Yes and no are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

39.     Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

40.     A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.

41.     Check your oil.

42.     Don't fake it. We'd rather be ineffective than deceived.

43.     It is neither in your best interest or ours to take any quiz together.

44.     It doesn't matter which quiz.

45.     Anything we said six months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after seven days.

46.     If you won't dress like the Victoria Secret girls, don't expect us to act like the soap opera guys.

47.     If something we said could be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

48.     You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both.

49.     Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

50.     Christopher Columbus didn't need directions, and neither do we.

51.     If you wear a Wonderbra and a low-cut blouse, you lose the right to complain about having your boobs stared at.

52.     Our relationship is never going to be like it was the first two months we were going out.

53.     Men see a limited number of colors, like Windows default settings. Peach is a fruit, not a color.

54.     Ditto melon.

55.     If we ask what's wrong and you say "nothing," we will act like nothing is wrong.

A Walk to Remember...

If you are a fan of the author Nicholas Sparks, you will love the movie A Walk to Remember. Based on Sparks's novel by the same name, the movie is a romantic saga of love, sacrifice, and happiness. You will be touched by Mandy Moore's brilliant portrayal of Jamie. Shane West (Landon Carter) also grabs eyeballs for his passionate performance.Fall in love with these A Walk to Remember quotes.

“You can never understand why people do stupid things for love unless you, yourself, experience how it is to be in love.”

`INSPIRATION - I was so in love with him for a long time. He means everything to me. We’re like one of those couples in Nicholas Sparks’ books. He make me laugh for some non-sense reasons, his weirdness, he inspires me a lot. Indeed, I was so in love, in love with a guy I can’t even call MINE.

`FRIENDSHIP - Despite our differences, disagreements. There’s some reason why the two of us met. I could tell you he’s the only one who can make me laugh even in my worst mood. He will do anything just to cheer me up, the one I shared my secrets without being judged. We’re so close, even our parents agree on our friendship. He’s a trusted friend.

`LOVERS - He’s everything I want. There’s something about him that drives me crazy. Whenever we kiss, I was nervous but whenever he smile while we’re kissing makes me feel comfortable with him. When we slept together, the way he hug me so tight. It was the best feeling ever. It makes me feel like he never want to let go. Waking up in the morning seeing the one you love sleeping while his arms around you. Priceless moment ever! 

- It hurts like hell, watching the one you love, love someone else. When he told me he already got a Girlfriend and I was like “Congrats.” but deep inside it breaks my heart into pieces. I admit I cried, well always after the revelation. I kept asking myself, “Am I really not that good enough for him?” Everything has been changed now.

`MOVING ON - Moving on…. how can you exactly move on when you were still in love with that person? How can you move on when your true friends were his friends too? How can you move on when you were so close to his family and your family was looking for him too? How can you move on when everything around you reminds of him?

 - I’m scared of not being with him and I still can’t accept it. But I’m distancing myself from him. I know I was so wrong for letting my world revolves around with just the two of us. So I’m setting myself free, to meet others.

If the two of us wants to be together, it will take time, patience & effort. So we can create a good relationship.

Somewhere in the middle of those conversation...

"Somewhere in the middle of those conversation...
I fell in love with you....
Being from strangers to friends..
Then from gossips to sharing secrets..
Don't know when I started to like you..
From those arguments to fights..
From those likes to dislikes..
From laughs to cries..
I did share many beautiful moments with you..

Somewhere in middle of those conversation..
I fell in love with you..
Don't know how the time passed.....
for hours of conversations used to last...

'n today it has been ages we talked...
Now you have girl by your side...

Tomorrow I would be someone else's bride
So today I wanna tell you this was something I did "hide"..
"Yeah somewhere in d middle of those conversation...
I fell in love with you..
'n for the Rest of my life..
I will cherish my relation with You.. !!

I saw your face today...

I saw your face today,in the face of a stranger..
but when i looked Again,you weren't there anymore..

I heard your voice today,in the middle of crowd..
I Turned around to listen,but did not hear your sound..

I felt your touch today,in the blowing wind
I clung to that moment,held it to its end..

I cried over You today,Drowned in my own sorrow
Then i came to realize
there is always a tomorrow..
there is always a tomorrow..!!
This is all how i feel..
but You're always ON in my mind. !!

10 Signs it’s Time to Let Go...

Holding on is being brave, but letting go and moving on is often what makes us stronger and happier.

Here are ten signs it’s time to let go:

  1. Someone expects you to be someone you’re not.– Don’t change who you are for anyone else.  It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are, than to keep them by being someone you’re not.  Because it’s easier to mend a broken heart, than it is to piece together a shattered identity.  It’s easier to fill an empty space in your life where someone else used to be, than it is to fill the empty space inside yourself where YOU used to be.

  2. A person’s actions don’t match their words.– Everybody deserves somebody who helps them look forward to tomorrow.  If someone has the opposite effect on you, because they are consistently inconsistent and their actions don’t match up with their words, it’s time to let them go.  It’s always better to be alone than to be in bad company.  True friendship is a promise made in the heart – silent, unwritten, unbreakable by distance, and unchangeable by time.  Don’t listen to what people say; watch what they do.  Your true friends will slowly reveal themselves over time.

  3. You catch yourself forcing someone to love you.
    – Let us keep in mind that we can’t force anyone to love us.
    We shouldn’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave.  That’s what love is all about – freedom.  However, the end of love is not the end of life.  It should be the beginning of an understanding that love sometimes leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson.  If someone truly loves you, they will never give you a reason to doubt it.  Anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you, but it takes someone really special to stay in your life and prove how much they love you.  Sometimes it takes awhile to find the right person, but the right person is always worth the wait.

  4. An intimate relationship is based strictly on physical attraction.
    – Being beautiful is more than how many people you can get to look at you, or how others perceive you at a single glance.  It’s about what you live for.  It’s about what defines you.  It’s about the depth of your heart, and what makes you unique.  It’s about being who you are and living out your life honestly.  It’s about those little quirks that make you, you.  People who are only attracted to you because of your pretty face or nice body won’t stay by your side forever.  But the people who can see how beautiful your heart is will never leave you.

  5. Someone continuously breaks your trust.
    – Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.  When you completely trust a person, without any doubt, you’ll automatically get one of two results - a FRIEND for life or a LESSON for life.  Either way there’s a positive outcome.  Either you confirm the fact that this person cares about you, or you get the opportunity to weed them out of your life and make room for those who do.  In the end you’ll discover who’s fake, who’s true, and who would risk it all for you.  And trust me, some people will totally surprise you.

  6. Someone continuously overlooks your worth.
    –  When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back.  There comes a point when you have to let go and stop chasing some people.  If someone wants you in their life, they’ll find a way to put you there.  Sometimes you just need to let go and accept the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them.  Let them leave your life quietly.  Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on.  We think it’s too hard to let go, until we actually do.  Then we ask ourselves, “Why didn’t I do this sooner?”

  7. You are never given a chance to speak your mind.
    – Sometimes an argument saves a relationship, whereas silence breaks it.  Speak up for your heart so that you won’t have regrets.  Life is not about making others happy.  Life is about being honest and sharing your happiness with others.

  8. You are frequently forced to sacrifice your happiness.
    – If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative before you know it.  Know when to close the account.  It’s always better to be alone with dignity than in a relationship that constantly requires you to sacrifice your happiness and self-respect.

  9. You truly dislike your current situation, routine, job, etc. – It’s better to be a failure at something you love than to succeed at doing something you hate.  Don’t let someone who gave up on their dreams talk you out of going after yours.  The best thing you can do in life is follow your heart.  Take risks.  Don’t just make the safe and easy choices because you’re afraid of what might happen.  If you do, nothing will ever happen.  Chances must be taken, mistakes must be made, and lessons must be learned.  It might be an uphill climb, but when you reach that mountaintop it will be worth every ounce of blood, sweat and tears you put into it.

  10. You catch yourself obsessing over, and living in, the past.
    – Eventually you will overcome the heartache, and forget the reasons you cried, and who caused the pain.  Eventually you will realize that the secret to happiness and freedom is not about control or revenge, but in letting things unfold naturally, and learning from your experiences over the course of time.  After all, what matters most is not the first, but the final chapter of your life, which unveils the details of how well you wrote your story.  So let go of the past, set yourself free, and open your mind to the possibility of new relationships and priceless experiences.

25 Beautifully Illustrated Thought-Provoking Questions...

A question that makes you think is worth asking…

At the cusp of a new day, week, month, or year, most of us take a little time to reflect on our lives by looking back over the past and ahead into the future.  We ponder the successes, failures and standout events that are slowly scripting our life’s story.  This process of self reflection helps us maintain a conscious awareness of where we’ve been and where we intend to go.  It is pertinent to the organization and preservation of our dreams, goals and desires.

If you would like to maximize the benefits of self reflection, our new sister site, Thought Questions, is for you.  A new illustrated thought question is posted daily.  We recommend that you read and reread these questions regularly when you have some quiet time to think.  After all, reflection is the key to progression.

Remember, these questions have no right or wrong answers.  Because asking the right questions is the answer.

Here’s a sample of 25 recent thought questions posted on the site: