I see guys spending weeks...

I see guys spending weeks,
months trying to make a girl happy.
I see girls waiting endlessly
for their guys to call.
Is that all your life is about?
For your lover to validate you?
Or to make a relationship work?
Instead, why not focus on yourself -
working on your goals, learning something,
being a more positive person
and helping others.
That will boost your self-esteem far
more than any lover ever could.
Next time that guy or girl treats you badly, say thank you.
Say thank you for reminding me that
I need to make myself the focus of my life,
not you.